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“What’s the first impression you want to give people?”
Ahh… Another fantasy of mine.
Well, the first impression that I would want to give is one who appears serious, quiet, confident yet kind and humble.
Instead, I’m as timid as a mouse.
My initial interaction with people are always soft, gentle and kind which is what I choose to exudate because I believe that the gentle approach is always the best especially when dealing with difficult people at times.
Sadly, if I were to know the demeanour of a person beforehand, it totally diminishes my confidence and in addition to coming off as soft and gentle, my approach is also guarded and scared.
Personally, I think this stems down to a lack of self-esteem issue. I do not trust myself enough and thus, I lack confidence.
It takes a long while for me to build my level of confidence and some time before I trust myself in my own decisions.
Perhaps one day, I’ll conform to that ideal image I envisioned myself to be.
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We had to change ourselves as we are working with people and that is the challenging part of life
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